Hi LustfulGoddess
welcome to the forum & I presume a female webmaster?
I'll try to give you a bit of direction but due to crap nights sleep you may need a universal translator in place
First hiring someone to do
SEO is expensive if done correctly so my advice would be do the research yourself which hopefully we can direct you down - start by reading this thread
Basics of Adult SEO as this will point out a LOT of errors you have on the site such as lack of titles,no descriptions and any real content (text)
I would recommend adding a articles section as then you can start working on keyword terms and write content / articles about your genre as this will help with traffic a lot - I would also place links to these articles on the index as this will help with crawling them
If you read the link I've placed here it will give you the grounding you need to start working on these articles - I would also then consider submitting articles to directories to start building up the link pop for the site
Personally I would drop the free blog and set your own one up as webmasters will be more interested in exchanging links with a paid blog rather than free
Cya around the forum
Tigs